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Paperback ISBN 978-1-909675-148 | 150 pages 

PRICE £9.99 plus p&p

"Full of cutting-edge information about what to do and examples showing how to do it. We recommend this book to all who want to learn how to navigate their relationships better."    Harville Hendrix PhD and Helen Lakely Hunt PhD, bestselling authors of Giving the Love that Heals

This is a realistic, relevant, down-to-earth book, crammed full of easy and effective tips – using just one a day will make a difference. It is perfect for BUSY modern families who face more challenges than ever as they try to balance their working life, family life, school life and social life, because it is a based on sound evidence and theory without piling on heaps of unnecessary background theory. Unlike most parenting books, that deal with problems in the child, it recognises issues in the context of the whole family unit, and aims to de-stress life for parents and children alike. The author’s accumulated professional and academic wisdom is condensed into this small but powerful book, encouraging parents to use psychologically sound tips to ‘coach’ their children and transform their relationships, through thoughtfulness, planning, strategy and consideration of their own values. A must-read for parents, but also anyone who spends time with young children in any context.



Kalanit is a Couples & Family Therapist, Imago Faculty Trainer,  International Speaker, and Book Author. She is passionate about helping families strengthen their relationships - in some cases, to transform them. She has worked as a couples therapist and parental advisor for 15 years and has a private clinic in Hampstead, London. She has a BA and an MA in Social Work, specialising in Clinical Child Development, and a Doctorate in Psychology from the Institute for the Study of Children, Families and Social Issues at University of London. Her main area of research was the influence of psychological processes and childhood experiences on adult romantic relationships. Harville Hendrix was her trainer at Imago Relationship Therapy, which he founded to offer an internationally recognised relationship therapy. As a Certified Advanced Therapist at Imago UK, Kalanit trains and supervises other therapists to become Imago-certified. She is married to Adi and has two daughters. ​

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